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Jeanette Hanscome's avatar

I'm sending belated hugs to you, Bethany. On Mother's Day I always think of women like you who expected to be moms only to have life turn out differently. Seriously, it can be such a cruel holiday. Right up there with Valentine's Day for single women.

I pray God will continue to shower you with His love and comfort and reminders that He has a beautiful life crafted for you.

Your poem is so beautiful.

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Thanks so much Jeanette! Receiving your hug and care ☺️. It can feel hard.. and not just for childless women - there can be complicated feelings, or just even the grief after a mother passes. Much to celebrate - but also much to be mindful of, and I appreciate how you do that.

Thanks for your prayer! That means a lot! And glad you like the poem! Have a good rest of your week!

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Jeanette Hanscome's avatar

You have a good rest of the week too!

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Thank you!! We’ve had a lot of rain today but the sun will come out soon! :)

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Donna Bucher's avatar

Thank you, Bethany for sharing yourself so poignantly. Mother's Day is hard for many, for diverse reasons. I It is one of the most painful days for me, but I find that's where God is closest. I am sorry for your grief and longing. May the God of all comfort bring Joy and continued beauty to your life as He redeems the ashes.

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Thanks for your kindness, Donna! And yes, you're so right - Mother's Day can stir a whole host of emotions - I pray you've been feeling God's kindness and comfort these past few days too. Thank you for that blessing, I receive it!!

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Jordan Sleed's avatar

You sell yourself short... That's a prayer, yes, but it is definitely also a poem. It brought tears to my eyes, invited me to pray with you, and led me to offer my own grief in the same way. Thanks for sharing.

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Hi Jordan - thank you for these very kind words! I deeply appreciate it (though apologize for my slow response). What a gift that even our sighs and groans can be a poem and prayer because the Lord sees and knows us. Thank you for the prayers, and this means so much to me that these words could be an offering for your own grief as well. Blessings to you and I’m glad we’ve connected.

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Jordan Williams's avatar

The subtitle 🤍

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Glad you appreciate that, dear Jordan! Lord let it be so. I love that that’s your heart’s hope too :)

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brandon alexander's avatar

Thank you! Beautiful poem

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Bethany Peck's avatar

You’re welcome, and thanks for reading Brandon!

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Stephanie Nygaard's avatar

I thought of you yesterday during our church service and said a prayer for you. ❤️ You birth so much beauty, and that is a blessing to me. Thank you.

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Bethany Peck's avatar

Wow, Stephanie! That's so sweet of you! Thank you for thinking of me and for praying for me! That really means a lot 🥺. And thank you for these kind, affirming words too - that touches my heart, and it means a lot to me that I can be a blessing to you! Grateful for you and hoping you are having a beautiful spring! ☺️

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civil winters's avatar

thought of you this past weekend, Bethany! sending over a belated hug for all you're carrying. i'm so, so happy to see this poem again. it's lovely! <3 p.s. the ramen bowl looks delicious!

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